How We Can Learn from Those with Alzheimer’s and Dementia
When loved ones start showing signs of dementia, it can be difficult to know how to proceed; we have learned that those who are living with the disease are the best ones to teach us. They know how they want to be communicated and engaged with. Here are three things we have learned:
Take the time to understand. When you do not know what all Alzheimer’s and Dementia entail, it can be extremely challenging to know how to proceed with your loved one’s care. You are likely to make incorrect conclusions and feel uncomfortable around them. Knowing and understanding the physiology of these cognitive conditions will help you navigate treatment in a more authentic way.
Remember they are still here. Those who suffer from these memory diseases still value their identity just as much as the rest of us; there will be emotional changes and memories will fade because of the nature of the disease, but the person you know and love is still here. Cherish that.
Have conversations, not interrogation sessions. Asking someone with a memory condition questions like “do you remember who this is?” or “Don’t you remember how we all visited last summer?” can cause them to get stressed out and frantic; this is never what we want. Instead, keep a conversation going with them on general topics and allow them to guide you with their responses.
Caring for those with declining cognitive abilities is hard; arming yourself with the right knowledge is a great way to make it easier for you and your loved one. If you would like more information, please give us a call today!
